The big 3-0: Day fifteen – The family BBQ!

Alright, it’s time to get back to the big 3-0 trip! As you should know by now, back in the summer of 2018 I embarked upon a 30 day trip in the USA to celebrate my 30th birthday!

So far on this trip I’d done some pretty cool things from firework displays on Navy Pier in Chicago to watching two friends get married on the West coast and much, much more but today felt like a big day on the month-long itinerary!

Every year Haleigh’s (my fiance!) family host an annual summer BBQ and get the whole gang together in the lovely city of Walla Walla in Washington State.

For someone with a pretty introverted personality I’d be lying if I was to say huge social gatherings are an environment I’m particularly comfortable in. Throw in the fact I’d be spending it with the significant other’s family, some of which I’d only be meeting for the first time, and it perhaps wouldn’t surprise you if I said I was dreading this day of the trip.

Yet oddly it was one of the things I was most looking forward to. I was excited, honoured even, to be invited in to this precious family tradition as an outsider. I had some nerves too of course because it was still early enough in our relationship that I wanted to make a good impression upon Haleigh’s family but it was mostly excitement.

Whilst I don’t particularly excel in social situations, that’s not to say I dislike them. I was really looking forward to a day of good weather, good food and good company. Fortunately I’d visited in February already so I hadn’t been thrown completely in to the deep end and I’d already visited Walla Walla and met a few members of Haleigh’s family previously.

Anyway on to the events of the day! I can’t quite remember what time we left but before heading over to Haleigh’s grandparents, hosts of the big day, we quickly went shopping to pick up a few bits and pieces for the BBQ. We then made our way over and were soon parked up outside the grandparents home.

Walla Walla – Nov 2019

Inside were a few people scattered around helping prepare the mountain of food required for such a large gathering, outside people were mingling and getting ready to kick off the fun and games.

The game of the weekend appeared to be some tactical dice game called Vegas, requiring a little luck with the objective of the game to be the one with the most money at the end of it.

It was a five player game and I was quick to jump in on the action and make sure I was in the first round of the competition. Partway through the first game it had been decided that there would be five rounds with the winner of each round qualifying for the grand final and an opportunity to take home the family bragging rights!

Sadly I fell just short in game number one, losing by $10,000 which is the smallest margin you could lose a game by – so close! The winner, Gina on this occasion, vacated her seat in order to allow a new challenger in to the ring.

Two games later we had three finalists before there was a break in play – it was time for the feast! Out came all of the food from the kitchen and it was spread out across this long table in the “yard”. Guests were then split between the “adults” and the “kids” of which me and Haleigh fell in to the latter – all but one of the kids table were genuinely children but it was a large party and too many people to fit to one table.

There was a happy mood in the air, everyone was in good spirits and enjoying themselves. For my first American family get-together it was a great experience and one I hope to enjoy many, many more times in the future. Good food and good company, what more could you possibly want?

It was nice getting to know Haleigh’s family a little better. After stuffing ourselves on food most of “the kids” moved back inside and were quickly playing some fun group games that you played on your phones.

At some point the games switched to a drawing / pictionary-like game which was my time to bow out – not my forte. I have no artistic talent so I was happy to sit this one out.

As it was Rob was keen to get some more games of Vegas going so tournament play resumed with two spots in the final up for grabs! I was keen to make the final cut but frustratingly lost another game by just 10,000. I think the competitive spirit and sabotage-tactics cost both me and Rob a place in Sunday’s grand final. The nature of the game means you can reap the rewards of others battling it out, swooping in and claiming the money for yourself.

Our wonderful hosts were keen to get a family photo to mark the occasion before the sun went down, so we made our way outside and obliged and that really signalled the winding down of the evening. People slowly started saying their goodbyes and were all heading off in various directions.

I haven’t seen any photos from the day and personally didn’t get any of my own, hence this is a post severely lacking any photos. I was just content to enjoy the day and appreciate the opportunity to partake in this special annual family tradition.

Sadly we missed it in 2019 as Haleigh was visiting England and obviously no plans really panned out this year but fingers crossed there’ll be an opportunity to get together for another family BBQ in 2021. I guess we’ll see.

Anyway, that rounds up the big family BBQ. Whilst the main event had come and gone, there was still one more day of family fun in Walla Walla to come before the big roadtrip could commence.

More on that to come soon! Stay tuned!

Jason

P.S – if you want to catch up on previous posts in the series, you can do so below!
Day one โ€“ Chicago bound
Day two โ€“ exploring Chicago
Day three โ€“ Minneapolis
Day four โ€“ Why I visited Minneapolis!
Day five โ€“ New Orleans!
Day six โ€“ The real New Orleans!
Day seven โ€“ Goodbye New Orleans, Hello Washington
Day eight โ€“ Exploring Poulsbo!
Day nine โ€“ Wedding day!
Day ten โ€“ To Portland!
Day eleven โ€“ the actual 3-0!
Day twelve โ€“ Oregon City and Portland
Day thirteen โ€“ Walla Walla bound!
Day fourteen โ€“ Walla Walla

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21 thoughts on “The big 3-0: Day fifteen – The family BBQ!”

  1. first encounters with your girls family can be horribly scary. Remember when Ben Stiller met his girlfriend’s family for the first time in Meet the Parents? I hope you get to reunite for another BBQ party, Jason.

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  2. I was definitely nervous when I went to England to meet the husband’s family. You and I both had foreign accents to contend with – how did you do with yours? Any family members you couldn’t understand? It’s funny because most of the husband’s family is perfectly intelligible to me, but a couple of them I can barely understand at all.

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    1. I never really have any problems understanding the accents over there. It does seem to be the other way that it causes confusion and sometimes I’ll have to repeat myself a few times for Americans to understand me haha.

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  3. Ah, I understand the feeling being not to comfortable in new social environment! But glad to read it ended up all well, because really, as you said, what is better than good food and good company for family events! I wish you many more memorable family gathering to come, whenever this pandemic is over!

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    1. Absolutely, they’re wonderful occasions. Particularly at this time of year. I hope you’ve had a nice festive period ๐Ÿ™‚

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    1. Absolutely, it feels weird to have not had the same get-togethers this year but hopefully this is a one off. I hope you had a great Christmas break too ๐Ÿ™‚

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    1. It is difficult! Hopefully we’ll be together again soon though, I’m keeping my fingers crossed for a better 2021.

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