2025 travel roundup

Hello dear readers, how are things? How was your 2025!? Happy New Year!

Every year I put together a little roundup of my travels for the year and so here you are – the 2025 edition!

In 2024’s roundup I said that any travel plans this year were kind of visa-dependent and here we are a year later still waiting for the US to make a decision on my visa application.

However, as some of you will have seen we’re finally starting to see some movement on the visa front so I’m pretty optimistic it’ll happen soon. Until then I’ll be blogging away (intermittently) in little ol’ England.

Anyway, back to the annual travel round-up! The only definitive plans I had for 2025 were that I’d return to Washington at some point, obviously. Here’s what else I got up to!

Malta – March 2025
The hardest thing about being in the land of visa limbo is still wanting to do fun things like travel and simultaneously feeling guilty for spending any money that I could be saving for the move.

The weather in 2024 was truly miserable and come the New Year I was itching for some Winter sunshine and a bit of adventure. I had no real destination in mind but a few hopes – the biggest being somewhere with decent weather.

I did some research and planning, started whittling down my options which included a few different European countries and Northern Africa and after much deliberation I ended up booking a week-long trip to Malta!

Truthfully it wasn’t even really in my early consideration but I think I’m learning in my “old age” that I’m getting a little more picky. I was a little conscious of my budget so thought maybe I’d book something all-inclusive. I went in to the planning phase with a few boxes to tick and Malta didn’t really tick all of them but they certainly ticked the right boxes and it proved a wise decision.

View overlooking the water in Valletta

Malta is lovely. It ended up exceeding my expectations actually. Malta’s probably a little lesser known around the world but has long been a popular destinations for Brits and it’s really easy to see why. I adored it and it’s another of those places I wouldn’t hesitate to return to.

The desire to go back is quite high actually, I’ll blog about it in more detail another time but I thoroughly recommend it. I had the loveliest week and was in no rush to return home at the end of the trip.

Washington State – April 2025
This is inevitable isn’t it? I’d last seen Haleigh at Thanksgiving (2024) and I would love for us to have had a Winter getaway together or to have spent our anniversary together (April 9th) but Haleigh was so busy with work in the first quarter that we didn’t get a chance until I flew over at Easter – curse work commitments!

Having waited an eternity to see each-other, I went over to the States for two weeks enjoying the usual Washington scenery and lovely company. By this point Haleigh was a little more settled in Washington so it was particularly nice to spend some proper time exploring the Tri Cities.

However..

Idaho, Utah and Nevada – April 2025
It has to be said, I’ve spent a lot of time in Washington over the last eight years. It’s always nice going back there, it’s always nice seeing family and friends but using so much of my annual leave for time in Washington is at the expense of seeing other parts of the world.

Additionally with Haleigh’s work schedule having been so hectic for months, we both thought it might be nice to get out of Washington for a period of time. We decided to drive on down to Utah and spend time with family in the Salt Lake City area.

I’d been to Utah briefly before but on that occasion we were in town for a wedding and only for a weekend so I hadn’t really had much chance to see it properly. Nevertheless, Utah made an impression on me and I was really hopeful it was as nice as I’d previously assumed it to be based on nothing of any real note.

A pretty park in Salt Lake City

Fortunately I wasn’t disappointed. I adore Salt Lake City. Haleigh’s cousins spent a good chunk of the trip convincing us to make Utah a permanent home and honestly, I don’t think it’d take much convincing on my end. I think it’s such an underrated city. Again I’ll blog about it in more detail but it was wonderful getting to actually see a bit of the city and local area this time. We also drove over to Park City one day which is the perfect blend of lovely and touristy.

We drove down to Utah and broke up the trip with a night in Twin Falls on the way down and a night in Boise on the way back up so had a small glimpse of Idaho too. We’d been to Twin Falls previously but it was our first time in Boise. We didn’t really do much other than use it as a base for the night but the little we saw was nice.

We also visited the Salt Flats down in Utah which is right on the Utah / Nevada border so we had the briefest of state line crossings and dipped in to Nevada just long enough for David to leave with a souvenir (a speeding ticket!)

San Sebastian & Bilbao – May 2025!
Oh man, how did this one happen!?

Long-time readers will remember I’d made the decision to go out and “live” in Washington for 3 months back in 2020 and truthfully that timeline wasn’t really as early as I’d liked. I was trying to be really mindful with my money to take such a trip and saving responsibly and then in 2019 my beloved Spurs pulled a European adventure out of nowhere and that planning went to pot.

I’ve always adored football and I’ve particularly fantasized about European football my entire life. It was a lifelong dream to watch Tottenham play and compete in Europe so my first European game in 2006 was incredible (lies – it was a drab 1-0 but you get the idea..). I then watched my first European away game in 2014 and that was another bucketlist worthy moment that will live with me forever.

Fortunately after a painful youth starved of European football, Tottenham became European regulars and I couldn’t get enough of it with hopes that maybe, just maybe we’d emulate my dad’s youth – watching Tottenham lift a European trophy in 1984!

Then the unthinkable happened. Forget your poxy UEFA Cup final in 1984, Spurs out of all improbability found themselves going on a Champions League adventure.

Dortmund, Amsterdam and a Champions League final in Madrid! Spurs in a fucking Champions League final – what is this strange reality!?

We lost.

My dad drove us to Madrid and irrespective of the result, the journey was one of those “once in a lifetime” stories that beggared belief. A father-son adventure to the continent for Spurs! I’m still bitter about how the game went and certainly how it started but it was an adventure for the ages and with my imminent departure to the US probably the last such adventure (HA!).

I’ve severely cut back on the football since 2019 and good ol’ Spurs have made that decision much easier by being hopeless for much of that period. That was particularly true last year with the most miserable domestic campaign of my life and yet, Spurs were on the march in Europe.

Against all logic, Spurs qualified for another European final. This time it was in the Europa League (former UEFA Cup) with the final hosted in Bilbao.

“Shall we..?”

This was not on the cards for 2025. I’m leaving the country. I’m trying to save money Spurs, please stop! Where were all these European finals in my 20’s when I was carefree with money and responsibility!?

but this was our time. Dad again suggested driving and why not!? It’s not even as long as the drive to Madrid – a doddle you might say, particularly as a non-driver!

Six years earlier we’d driven down to Madrid and stayed in Biarritz for a night to break up the drive. Bilbao was slightly closer and my dad asked if there was any such place this time around. We could potentially have gone back to Biarritz but honestly, one place immediately jumped out at me: San Sebastian!

San Sebastian has been on my radar for the longest time and I’d actually been to Bilbao exactly ten years earlier (which is funny, I’ll get onto that later..) and had hoped to visit San Sebastian on that trip but I got myself horribly lost and confused with the train system and eventually gave up on the idea of visiting.

With costs in Bilbao spiralling for this trip and with San Sebastian on route, this was an absolute no brainer as far as I was concerned. We didn’t quite stay in San Sebastian, more on the outskirts in some rural inland accommodation but it was much cheaper than Bilbao and meant I finally got to San Sebastian.

Our time there was limited and we spent a day of the trip in Bilbao obviously but the Basque country is gorgeous. I’d been to Bilbao before but San Sebastian is every bit as dreamy as I’d hoped it would be.

Then Bilbao. Spurs in Bilbao. A European final in Bilbao. A WINNING European final in Bilbao. Seventeen long fucking years for that moment in Bilbao, forty one long fucking years since Spurs last taste of glory in Europe and unlike Madrid I’d nabbed two tickets for the game.

Brennan Johnson, Micky Van De Ven, Ange Postecoglou, Glory Glory Tottenham Hotspur!

Again I’ll blog about this in much more detail at a later date (“you’ve already written a novel Jason..”) but it’s a trip that will take some beating.

Brussels – October 2025
Okay, so now for the funny story!

Last year myself and Haleigh visited the Algarve together and whilst it was Haleigh’s first time in Portugal, I’d been to Lisbon ten years earlier. I started drafting a blog-post about our trip and it was weighing heavily on my mind how comparatively they were such contrasting trips and how much had changed over a ten year period. So many things stood out to me and it left me feeling really reflective.

Fast forward to Bilbao. I’d been to Bilbao on a solo holiday in May 2015 and exactly ten years later I was going back to Bilbao but this time taking my dad with me (well, he drove but you get the point..).

Having now had two Father-Son road-trips to Spain I was really conscious tlhat I hadn’t had such a trip with just me and my mum and then in passing conversation my mum threw a “so where are we going then..?” at me.

I don’t even know that it was meant in all seriousness but I was immediately receptive to it – “hell yeah, where do you want to go?” and I think it took her by surprise. A day or two later it came up again and the reality kicked in that we could take a trip together.

This visa stuff has dragged on and on and I’m always a little conscious that at any moment I could get a decision so I didn’t want anything that’d be too expensive but why not have a first mum-son adventure of our own?

We pondered a few options. Do we even necessarily have to go abroad? Do we fly somewhere? My mum mentioned she’d never once taken the Eurostar and that opened up a few options too. We considered a few different options and then settled upon Brussels – a long weekend in October 2025.

It was only a little while later that it occurred to me that I’d been to Brussels exactly ten years earlier. I’d briefly passed through on other occasions but I’d last properly spent time in Brussels in October 2015. What the hell is this 10 year anniversary tour!?

Portugal, Bilbao, Brussels – three separate trips ten years apart and three separate trips taking a different family member with me. Is this actually my life now? Am I on a ten year loop for all of my trips? Roll on New York City 2026, right?

Brussels isn’t my favourite city by any means but it’s a nice enough place to explore for a weekend and my mum had never been to Brussels so I was excited to show her around a little too.

I still don’t think Brussels is the greatest city but one thing I will say is that it’s nicer than I remember and probably give it credit for. I don’t know if it’s cleaned up its act or I joked that maybe I just needed my mum there with me to hold my hand but Brussels felt less sketchy this time around. I developed a bigger appreciation for Brussels on this trip and of the few times I’ve visited the city, this trip was probably my favourite.

Good beer, good company, what more could you ask for!?

Washington State – November 2025
and then of course, Washington.

I’m going to manifest this being the last time I travel from England to Washington for Thanksgiving. Just let me be living there next November, please!?

Nevertheless it’s an annual tradition that I use up the remainder of my annual leave for a November trip to Washington to enjoy all of the Thanksgiving festivities. Sadly I only had a week to spare this year so it was a much shorter trip than I would have liked.

One of the things that first surprised me on this trip was how quiet the flight was. I’ve heard a lot of bluff and rumour of travelers boycotting the US but this was the first time I’ve personally witnessed that in effect. I flew out to Seattle on the quietest flight I have taken since April 2020, there were rows and rows of empty seats and Seattle’s international arrival hall was also a ghost town – in Thanksgiving week!

I’m sure domestic travel numbers were still insane but this is one of the busiest travel weeks of the year for the USA. I was in disbelief at how quiet it was, although appreciative of it because I had a row to myself and practically no queue on arrival in Seattle whilst the poor Americans had to queue in their separate “priority” line.

I won’t be too critical because I’ll get a telling off in the land of free speech but man, it’s almost as if adopting hostile policies that make travelers and foreigners unwelcome in your country has real consequences.

There was actually a touch of irony that having waited 13 months for any communication about my visa that in the days before this trip I got confirmation that my visa had been provisionally approved and would now be passed over to a different agency for further processing. It was great news but not news I wanted directly before flying in to the USA as it’d potentially cause me extra hassle at the border.

“Oh, you’ve had this approved and now you’re flying here to stay forever eh?”
“No! I’m just here for Thanksgiving.. I’m genuinely going home in a week!”
“Sure you are.. entry denied!”

It had been seven long months since I’d last seen Haleigh and I didn’t want any confusion about why I was visiting. I’d waited 13 bloody months, why couldn’t the visa folks have waited another week before updating our application!?

As it was, the arrival process was so smooth this time around. I was expecting a decent amount of scrutiny, moreso after seeing how few international travelers had actually come in on our flight but the guy at border control was so friendly this time around.

Anyway, I’d arrived! Back in Washington, reunited with Haleigh. It has been a tough ol’ year for Haleigh’s family with three different family members passing away so it was a strange time to be in Washington, particularly for a family holiday but nevertheless it was so good to be Stateside again.

Thanksgiving was different but still enjoyable with good company, good food, games and an endless number of football games (NFL and college) on the TV over the course of a few days.

Being in Washington knowing this will soon be home was good too. I couldn’t help but admire the mountain views again and feeling warm and fuzzy at the thought this would soon be an every day view. I don’t know how you’d ever tire of it.

The end to the trip was a bit of a mixed bag. I was due to fly out of Walla Walla on the Saturday but severe weather delays meant I would miss my connection in Seattle so I had the inconvenience / good fortune of an extra day in Washington. It wasn’t ideal but also not the end of the world, you know? Me and Haleigh made the best of having an extra night together and were able to enjoy dinner at a nice restaurant on Saturday evening but staying longer had consequences.

Alaska Airlines once again were super helpful, going above and beyond in their duty of care to passengers. Admittedly it was their flight that caused the problems but nonetheless, their customer service always impresses me.

British Airways in contrast can get in the bin. This is the second time I’ve genuinely needed the help of their customer service and they’ve been perfectly useless on both occasions. Missing their flight wasn’t their fault but also was no fault of my own because I had no way of getting to Seattle in time and they just don’t care.

Honestly, good customer service when everything goes perfectly is meaningless. I want to know your customer service is still good when things go awry. I sadly ended up lumbered with a very expensive fee to change my flight to the following day – not the end to the trip I’d hoped for.

Experiencing BA’s poor customer service once again leaves me with a really sour taste and news of Alaska Airlines launching a direct London-Seattle route in 2026 couldn’t come at a better time and gives me hope that that might be a better alternative for the future. I adore Alaska and ironically they’ve probably been the airline that have been the cause of most of my travel misfortunes.

Domestic adventures!
I’m pleasantly surprised at how much I managed to travel this year, it was a tricky year to make travel plans for and yet I still managed to visit some pretty cool places including a new country.

I also visited some truly stunning places. Some of the scenery in parts of Malta, Washington, Utah and San Sebastian in particular were dreamy.

Ferry trip over to Gozo!

Beyond my overseas adventures, I’ve still tried to make the best of this year. It has been hard looking too far ahead at any point but there have been various theatre outings, a few gigs here and there, a few football matches (in three different countries!), some beer outings as part of our book club – I read more this year than I ever have as an adult with a respectable 44 books read in 2025!

My sister and brother in law had a baby this past year so I became a first time uncle. I’ve continued volunteering, I’ve tried to remain optimistic whilst life goes on in England during these times of visa limbo.

The year wasn’t without its lows of course, there’ve definitely been challenging moments and heartbreaking moments along the way but all in all I came out of 2025 with grattitude. I’m always quite mindful that others will have had a much rougher year and that I’ve had it pretty good.

Plans for 2026
As for 2026, who bloody knows!?

I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t getting itchy feet. I’ve found myself in the same position I was a year ago and wanting to book myself a Winter trip and finding it difficult to justify once again.

I came so close to booking myself a trip for February or March back in November and there’s a little part of me that wished I’d just booked it. I took a more cautious and sensisble approach and was rewarded with a very unexpected and expensive end to the year. It’s a little harder justifying a Winter break when it means dipping further in to my savings than I’d really like to.

In more positive news, I’m really hopeful I’ll be in Washington by the summer so that’s the big plan for 2026 and then we’ll see what adventures follow. I really want to visit all 50 states at some point and I’ve currently only been to 15 (and a few others I don’t count..). I think I’ll be looking for any excuse to visit some new states in the coming years.

I’d love to say I’ll visit other countries at some point but I’m not sure how likely it is this year. Maybe the temptation eating away at me will allow me to squeeze in one final trip before leaving England. Northern Africa and Asia are calling my name and it just feels that little bit easier from here. Central and South America adventures can wait until I’m settled Stateside I think.

Anyway, let me stop rambling for now. I hope you all have exciting 2026 plans and if you find yourself tempted to visit Washington State, come say hi because fingers crossed it won’t be too much longer before I call it home.

Stay tuned!

Jason

2024 travel roundup

Hello my dear followers! How are things? I think this is the part where I make my excuses for how little I’ve posted in 2024 and vow that 2025 will be much better but is that actually likely? I suppose we shall see.
It’s strange to think that once upon a time I used to post here on a weekly basis, how did that ever happen!?

but maybe 2025 will be better?

In all honesty, 2024 was quite a strange year. Those of you on other social media platforms (“there are others beyond WordPress Jason!?”) will have seen me talk about this at the beginning of the year but life has kind of stood still for most of the year.

We decided back around March time that things weren’t working in England and that Haleigh would move back to the States permanently, which happened in the summer, and now we get to go through all the fun of the immigration process again to get me over to the US permanently.

I don’t envy the process on anyone and we’ve found ourselves doing it in both directions. It’s frustrating, it’s time-consuming and it’s expensive. To the American’s credit, it seems much cheaper going in that direction but the process seems like it’ll probably take longer to get me over there.

I’ll touch on the epiphany moment of making the decision later in the post but we made the decision much earlier in the year and I think because I’m naturally an optimistic and positive person, mentally I’d kind of placed myself in my new life across the pond. My genuine feelings were those of excitement.

The problem with placing yourself somewhere mentally is that in actuality, nothing has changed almost nine months later. I’m conscious people have it much worse and we have no real cause for complaint but life does feel like it’s a bit on pause at the moment. We’re sitting waiting for a stranger to make a decision on our case – “is this person going to be a good ex-Pat or a bad immigrant?” – fine line, isn’t it?

In the meantime I’m living a day-to-day that feels a bit arbitrary and the knock-on effect is that 2024 has been fine at best. It’s a struggle making longer-term plans when they lay elsewhere but you don’t know when that’ll be.

Anyway, getting back on track with the topic of this post. I figured I’d make my overdue blog return to stick with a yearly tradition of an annual roundup of all things travel. Despite a “doom and gloom” feel to this post so far, looking back at my 2023 travel roundup I’d like to think that we did much of what I’d expected and hoped that we would do this year.

We can always hope for more travel and more adventure but during 2024 we managed to see a little more of the UK, visit somewhere that neither myself or Haleigh had been to and naturally we also returned to Washington – one of us with a one way ticket but I’ll get to that shortly!

Here’s a little glimpse at 2024!

February – York
With both of us working the Monday-Friday life, it felt nice to take a Friday to have a long weekend somewhere. We considered a few different options, some more budget-friendly than others and we eventually agreed upon going up to York for a long weekend.

In theory this was a great idea, York is an incredible city and one that everyone should visit at some point. I was keen to show it off to Haleigh but truthfully our timing wasn’t the greatest!

Firstly it fell around that time of the year that kids had a week’s holiday here in the UK. I’m sure I appreciated it plenty during my educational years but do we really need to let the little rascals have so much time off throughout the year? To further exacerbate our woes, I’d neglected to realise at the time that our little weekend away in York actually overlapped with the annual Vikings festival in good ol’ Jorvik.

You could make a case for that being excellent timing or terrible timing I suppose. On the one hand you could make a case that a Vikings festival is the best time to visit York – the city was inundated with Vikings and entertainment throughout the weekend but simultaneously it was horrendously busy everywhere we went so also a pretty crazy time to be in York.

Despite the crowds and the typical English weather, we made the best of our time in York. It’s still a phenomenal city and the likes of the York Minster and York’s Castle Museum are worth a visit at any time of year. However it’d be lovely to go back and explore more peacefully when the likes of the Shambles aren’t.. well, a shambles!

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We also had the misfortune of the weather. One of the things I’d hoped we could do was take a river cruise along the River Ouse but with the torrential downpour, all fucking year, the city was flooded and consequently we had to settle for a city bus tour instead.

However it was still nice to get away and show off one of England’s finest cities to Haleigh on her furthest trip North in the World!

The Algarve – Portugal
It’s not that bad” is how I’d often find myself describing the weather here in England. I think it’s vastly exaggerated how bad the weather is in England, much in the same way people speak about Seattle and yet every time I go to Washington I arrive to find blue skies and beautiful sunsets. Where’s this mythical Seattle weather people speak of?

I leap to England’s defence, I promise people it’s not that bad and how is my patriotism rewarded? With endless rain. I think we had about 500 days of rain last year!

“erm Jason, I don’t think a year has that many days?”

Well, I stand by it. The weather this past year has been bloody miserable. You hear extreme headlines of there being “too many people in boats” and yet it’s not the pesky immigrants they’re writing about, it’s your every-day commuter that have abandoned their cars and started rowing to work because of how much rain we’ve had in the last couple of years.

“Who’s exaggerating now?”

Look, it’s not just me saying it. Here’s an article suggesting it was the wettest 18 month period since records began or this article suggesting England was preparing for its wettest summer in 100 years or how we suffered the wettest September for a century. The facts back it up! It has rained and rained and rained and rained and.. you get the point.

Rained!

For a multitude of reasons, we went in to 2024 wanting a holiday. A proper holiday at that. A long distance relationship has meant a lot of our annual leave has been taken up by Transatlantic adventures to visit the other or family or whatever. We squeezed some small, local trips in to 2023 but one of my hopes for 2024 was to visit somewhere that wasn’t Washington State. I love it but I was desperate to just go anywhere else.

Haleigh herself was in much need of a break and we decided we’d chase the Winter sunshine and get away for a full week of sunshine (“what’s that!?”) and relaxation.

Algarve 2

We pondered a few options. Well, actually, I mostly narrowed down the options as my knowledge of European getaways was naturally a little more extensive than Haleigh’s. There was a temptation to look further flung than Europe but with just a week’s holiday I think Europe made sense.

It’s surprising how many coastal destinations aren’t necessarily good beach destinations. We eventually whittled down our options to a few select destinations but the Algarve looked increasingly more appealing plus friendly to the budget.

Haleigh had never been to Portugal before. I’d been to Lisbon ten years prior and loved my first impressions of Portugal but I was excited to visit a part of the country that I’d never visited either.

I’ll blog about it in more detail at a later date but we picked really well. The Algarve is beautiful, the beaches are out of this world and we had the perfect week of relaxation! I’d thoroughly recommend it and this was sadly, probably one of the happiest weeks Haleigh had living in England.

Yeah, not an encouraging sign given we were in Portugal!

Algarve 1

Norwich – Easter weekend
With other plans for later in the year, we decided we’d celebrate an early anniversary by taking a trip over the Easter weekend rather than using up annual leave for a midweek anniversary.

Norwich is another nice English city to spend some time in and weather-permitting we might have even squeezed in a trip to the coast for a day. It might not quite be the Algarve but the Norfolk coast is alright, isn’t it?

Alas, Haleigh got sick in the run up to our weekend away and we sadly ended up staying at home. In some ways this epitomised Haleigh’s time in England and felt much like the beginning of the end as far as English life was concerned.

Cromer
Cromer beach, Norfolk

London – May
However firstly, Haleigh had family from Utah coming to visit. Well, truthfully they were taking a cruise that mostly toured other places nearby but they set aside a few days to see us in England too.

Trip-planning for this probably wasn’t as smooth as we’d have liked and there were a few different things to consider which kind of left things more last minute than we’d have liked. Haleigh’s family based themselves in London and one such consideration was whether rather than fork out on expensive London accommodation, we actually travel back-and-forth between London and Peterborough each day.

However we didn’t really want all that faff so committed to spending a full week down in good ol’ London!

Again, this might be a trip I blog about in more detail but if you set aside the cost it’s a phenomenal place to spend a week isn’t it? I was born in London, it’ll always be home to me to some degree and I’m completely biased when it comes to judging London objectively but there’s nowhere like it.

I compared New York City to London in an older blog post and whilst NYC rivals it, I joked in that post that the one thing that gives London the edge is that NYC isn’t London – a completely fair ruling!

It was great to be able to show off “my city” but it was also great to just have some significant time there. The one downside to living so close to London still is that it rarely ever needs more than a daytrip to visit. I can go to the football or the theatre or go to see family or whatever and still be tucked up in my own bed the same night so why pay for accommodation usually? I can catch a late train home and be cosy in my own home.

This was a trip that really allowed us the luxury of enjoying London in all its glory – something we hadn’t really done since Haleigh’s first trip to England.

I didn’t see much point in basing ourselves on the outskirts of London, if we were going to spend a week in the capital I didn’t then want to be spending an age commuting in and out of the city. So we plumped for accommodation in central London – the Paddington area to be precise which proved to be a good base for our time in London.

From there the possibilities were endless. You’ll never run out of things to do in London but a week is also a long time to actually really enjoy it. We experienced a few different things over the course of a week that I’ll write about at a later date but the most important thing was my extended family had enjoyed their time in England.

London

Whitby – June
We had one final adventure left before Haleigh said farewell to England. Myself, Haleigh, my parents, sister and brother-in-law had made plans for a weekend up in Whitby in Yorkshire! It’s not somewhere Haleigh had been before and additionally wasn’t somewhere I’d been before either so we were looking forward to a nice summer weekend up in Whitby.

Naturally, summertime in England doesn’t really count for anything. You’re just aswell booking in December or January and hoping for blue skies. We’d got quite lucky in London for the week but it was mostly grey and overcast skies up in Yorkshire!

Nevertheless we still made the best of it and it wasn’t too bad (“you keep saying that!”) weather wise. Truthfully dreary days by the coast are the best times to visit, for some reason they appear to be much more popular on sunnier and warmer days?

Anyway, Whitby’s lovely. We made time to visit the Abbey whilst we were up there, brushed up on our knowledge of Dracula and Bram Stoker and also took a rather anti-climatic boat ride out to nowhere but it was a nice weekend away with the family and a good opportunity to spend some time together whilst all six of us remain in the country and perhaps it’ll be the last time we’ll do such a trip.

Whitby

Washington State – August
There was a touch of irony and coincidence in the timing of this trip but we moved “the immigrant” back home on the 1st of August. In the very same week the UK were hosting country-wide anti-immigration demonstrations and just generally losing their damn minds. Riots and lootings and just general destruction spreading across the country from the *checks notes* patriots.. ?
Nothing says “I love my country” more than wreaking havoc on your own doorstep!

It’s such a weird mind-fuck having Haleigh’s family asking her what it was about England she didn’t like and simultaneously sitting there myself thinking I’ve never been more ashamed of my country. England is a lovely country but it’s harder making that argument when the growing number of Reform racists are running riot.

I wrote a satirical blog post over a year ago joking that myself and Haleigh would be crossing the Atlantic on a dinghy and somehow both countries hatred of immigrants and foreigners seems worse now than it was when I wrote that post.

Anyway, I’d done my civic duty and helped remove one immigrant from the country for good. My reward for such patriotism was getting to spend some time in Washington State. You might potentially call it a holiday of sorts.

Seattle

It was nice to be back in Washington temporarily. We didn’t do anything particularly exciting but 2024 saw the return of the annual family BBQ and it was nice to see so many of Haleigh’s family again. We did some of the more mundane “moving home” kind of things that needed doing now Haleigh was back but overall it was a nice time away and I even got a glimpse of what a summer looks like in places other than rainy, little England.

Unfortunately only one of us were making the trip back to England as Haleigh began to re-settle back in Washington and we began the arduous immigration process all over again.

One day we’ll eventually be in the same place at the same time but alas that chapter isn’t written yet!

Washington – November
Now this was obvious, wasn’t it? Thanksgiving number five! With the exception of 2020 for obvious reasons, I’ve managed to make it to Washington for Thanksgiving every year since my first in 2019!

An extra holiday is an absolute perk to marrying an American. Obviously it shouldn’t be the sole reason you marry someone but it doesn’t hurt to have extra perks. I always love returning to my second home for Thanksgiving each year.

Unfortunately my annual leave seemed to disappear quite quickly this year and looking back it’s hard to see where it went exactly but this was the hand I had been dealt, I could only return to Washington for a week. Nowhere near long enough but it is what it is.

Seatac Airport

Weirdly, having applied for a spousal visa at this point I’d anticipated a much more interrogative arrival in Seattle for this trip but no.. Naturally I’d given myself plenty of time in the layover I had and it was one of the quickest ever arrivals I’ve had Stateside.

“Why are you here?”
“I’m spending Thanksgiving with my wife and her family.”
“Where’s your wife?”
“She lives here?”
“Where do you live?”
“In England”
“Why…?”

I don’t know mate, for shits and giggles. What do you mean why?

Seriously, there was just something in the tone of his question that was almost comical. “You’re apart? I mean that makes no sense dude. You should just be together!”

If only it were that simple! Who do I speak to to make this guy the head of immigration?

Pleased with a suitable answer less sarcastic than those going on in my brain, he waved me on through and I was back in Washington!

As ever, the week went far, far too quickly but it was nice to be back in Washington and of course good to be reunited with Haleigh even if only temporarily. Hopefully Mr Border Patrol officer receives his fully-deserved promotion but until such a time we continue to wait.

Local stuff
That just about sums up the bigger trips of the year. I’d say Portugal was the highlight, it is a really special part of the world and certainly one of the best trips we’ve taken together.

I feel like my online presence was much less in 2024 across all platforms but beyond the above, I’ve still been trying to make the best of the year and living my life in England. There were bigger plans for the year that perhaps didn’t pan out as planned but this was a year where I squeezed in more volunteering. I rediscovered a love of some hobbies and discovered others that really aren’t for me.

All in all, my year wasn’t bad and I know others in the world have much more to worry about but fingers crossed for better things to come in 2025!

Peterborough

So.. 2025 plans?
Look, some of this is visa-dependent. We submitted our application in mid October so we’re almost three months into the process. We’ve been advised it could take anywhere up to two years so it’s impossible to say when it’ll happen for us, we’ll keep hopeful that it’ll happen in 2025 but it’s out of our hands.

One goal is obviously to save some money. Whenever it does happen, I don’t want to be heading to Washington penniless but there’s that fine balance between saving all of my money and dying of boredom in the process.

I don’t want to be financially irresponsible and reckless but whilst we are waiting, I still need to maintain a life here in England.

As far as travel is concerned, I’ll obviously visit Washington at some point this year. Haleigh is hopeful to visit England later in the summer too so we’ll still see eachother albeit not as much as we’d like.

More ambitious travel plans, I’m craving a bit of Winter sunshine again. I need to figure out if there’s wiggle room in the budget to take a holiday but I’m tempted nonetheless. Haleigh doesn’t have the annual leave / PTO to join me but I want a little bit of sunshine. I’d be tempted to return to the Algarve again but if I return without Haleigh, that’ll likely end in divorce so I’ll have to consider other alternatives!

I’m also really, really tempted to get back to Finland. I want to see more of the country and it’s calling my name.

Truthfully though, I have no plans other than visiting Washington at some point but I’ve been to Washington so many times that it isn’t quite scratching that itch and desire to travel and see the world.

I suppose watch this space!

Anyway, I’ll hopefully blog more this year so watch that space too. Until next time!

Jason

2022 travel roundup

Hello there dear followers! I hope that you all had a lovely Christmas! Happy New Year too! I’m determined to get back on track with regular blogging in 2023 and what better way to start than with the annual “travel roundup” post?

I’ve managed to bash one out every year over the past few years, so if you’re interested in giving those a read I’ll link the posts below:
2017: Travel roundup
2018: A travel round-up
2019 travel roundup
2020 travel roundup
2021 travel roundup

Anyway, onwards to 2022! I actually offered a rare half-year post this year so some of you will already know what I got up to in the first six months of 2022 but for the rest of you, fear not because I’ll do a little recap right now to catch you up!

A wedding in Washington State – March & April
The first trip of the year was the big one! After postponing our September 2021 wedding we moved it to April of 2022 and so come March I was ready to head over and finally get married!

Covid restrictions added a new level of problems for travel planning over the last two years but having Covid restrictions wreak havoc with a wedding trip? Yeah, that’s stressful! I’d avoided Covid entirely for two years so I was waiting for the inevitable, something to go wrong just before I flew out to Washington.

Fortunately my immune system held out for two months and I didn’t catch Covid for another couple of months. I was good to go!

I will write about the trip in more detail at a later date but the wedding went swimmingly. It was a great day and absolutely a highlight of 2022. All the waiting and stress beforehand was worth it and as much as I’ve always loved a wedding, enjoying your own is another level of joy that I can’t really explain.

10/10 – would do again (same bride.. don’t worry, jeez.)

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Honeymooning in Oregon – April
The uncertainty of Covid traveling, plus the cost of a wedding meant we only really planned a small break after the wedding. We decided we’d head from Walla Walla out to Portland for a few days and hopefully squeeze in a little time at the coast too.

Alas we made our Westbound drive and the weather took a turn. The rain was hammering down with rain on our drive to Portland and sure enough the next morning we woke up to snow – not quite what we’d planned for!

We made the best of the weather and enjoyed our first few days of married life! We extended our trip hoping to end the week with better weather and luckily it paid off – ensuring we got to enjoy a sunny day on the Oregon coast.

Again, I’ll delve in to this part of the trip in much more detail in a future blog post but it was a lovely break despite the weather and nice to experience some new things in Oregon.

Oregon Coast
Honeymooning in Lincoln City, Oregon

Idaho or no? – April
On the 9th of April myself and Haleigh finally got married in Walla Walla, Washington! On the 30th of April Haleigh’s cousin Michelle got married down in Salt Lake City (ish), Utah!

One month – two weddings – three weeks apart!

The problem for me was my intentions for our wedding was to arrive in Washington two weeks before the wedding and leave two weeks after. A second wedding so soon but not soon enough in some respects made for some tricky travel planning – keeping in mind that I was employed full-time.

Haleigh and family were planning to drive down from Washington but the timing of the Utah wedding gave me a tricky dilemma. Do I try my luck at getting five weeks off work? Do I even want five weeks off work for one trip? What about the rest of the year?

Joining Haleigh’s family for a roadtrip had its pros and cons, flying back to England only to return again so soon also had its pros and cons. Decisions, decisions..

The only certainty was that I was going to this Utah wedding. The logistics of how to do that was the only complication but one way or another I was going to Utah. In the end I decided that I’d fly home on the 23rd of April and then fly back to Utah (via Denver) on the 28th of April in time for the wedding.

Alas, come the 22nd of April I discovered that British Airways had kindly delayed my flight by 18 hours! The consequence of which meant a massive headache and the likelihood that I wouldn’t be getting back to England until the 25th. I considered my options and had a long and frustrating conversation with British Airways which went roughly along the lines of “this is your problem mate. Why are you (the customer) only letting us (the airline) know about our delayed flight at the last minute? Where’s your crystal ball?”

There aren’t enough words to describe my anger for British Airways in that moment. I can accept cancellations, delays, blah blah blah but BA’s willingness to throw the blame back upon me in addition to the lack of desire to find a solution did not sit right with me and left quite a sour taste for a while (I’m over it, honest..).

After much deliberation and back-and-forth I decided to extend my trip and stay in the USA for two further weeks (having to work Stateside) so long story short – roadtrip!

So a change of plans and an opportunity to see a new state! We broke up the drive and spent a night in Twin Falls, Idaho – a nice little town with, you guessed it, waterfalls! We obviously didn’t spend much time looking around but it seemed a nice enough town and we made sure to see Shoshone Falls before leaving too. It’s very pretty!

Twin Falls
Shoshone Falls, Idaho

A wedding in Utah – April
Myself and Haleigh talked about visiting Utah a couple of times in the past. Firstly on my big 3-0 trip as we contemplated driving to San Fran via Salt Lake City. In the end we decided it was too much to do in too little time.

Two years later I met Michelle and David for the first time and we had a lovely Valentine’s Day double-date in Washington. They’re the loveliest couple and we agreed that we’d come down and see them over the 2020 Easter break. Yeah, 2020..  Needless to say, that didn’t happen either!

So third time lucky! I was excited to finally visit Utah and specifically Salt Lake City. It felt long overdue and I was particularly excited to see Michelle and David get married – our April anniversary buddies!

We weren’t in town for long and much of that was spent catching up with Haleigh’s family and then of course the wedding itself. The wedding was lovely. I’m such a fan of weddings so an outdoor wedding in a state as pretty as Utah certainly ticked the right boxes – it was a lovely day!

I have to say Salt Lake City was a nice surprise too. We were so busy with family stuff that we didn’t see much of the city or the downtown area but there was just something about it that was endearing. This was the USA in all its glory but with 360 degree mountain views.  It left an impression on me and I couldn’t shake the feeling that this had the potential to be one of my favourite American cities – despite seeing so little of it. I can’t explain it! We returned to Washington at the end of the weekend but Salt Lake City and Utah had not disappointed.

Utah wedding

Back to Washington – May
So from Utah it was back to Washington for a little longer. It was nice having that little bit more time with Haleigh, although extending my stay did mean I had to work remotely at the end of my trip – not ideal working UK time on a PST timezone!

However we made the best of the extra time. We even squeezed in an overnight trip to see our friends in Pullman which meant I swapped working in Haleigh’s kitchen for this pretty AirBnB view in Pullman – it was nice watching the sun rise in the peaceful early hours!

Pullman

We headed back to Walla Walla for the final couple of days. After six weeks myself and Haleigh were finally parting! The immigration process had begun but I probably wouldn’t be returning to Washington until Thanksgiving..

Washington State, again – June
Oh.. Maybe a little sooner than Thanksgiving then. This wasn’t the plan, I hadn’t intended to come back and certainly not so soon but you can only hear “How’s married life?” so many times before wanting to rip your ears off.

That was undoubtedly the question of 2022 and it probably wasn’t helped by having as long as six weeks together but I think by the end of May I was already sick of being apart.

A lack of annual leave meant it was going to be a short and sweet visit but I decided that I’d go and surprise Haleigh and visit Walla Walla for her mid-June birthday. A wonderful idea in theory, in reality Haleigh was talking about heading out of town for the weekend and spending time with friends.

So I came clean. I didn’t really fancy a surprise trip to see my wife if my wife wasn’t actually going to be in town! The trip flew by far too quickly but it was nice getting to spend a bit more time together. I also squeezed in a few hours in Seattle which was lovely!

Hopefully the next time we’d be seeing eachother would be when that pesky visa comes through (HA!) and we’d  finally be together!

Seattle

Newcastle – May
Alright, let’s go back a step! In-between Washington trips I went up North for a weekend. My friend Sarah was celebrating her 30th birthday and that was a great excuse for a weekend away!

The 30th birthday celebrations were in a small town called Northallerton which I contemplated for all of five seconds before deciding it’d be better to base myself elsewhere. Excluding watching Spurs hungover at St James’ Park I’ve never really spent any time in Newcastle so decided I was going to visit the land of the Geordies for a weekend.

The birthday celebrations were wonderful. Sarah had hired an Abba tribute band to play and keep us entertained with Abba tunes all evening which was a fun way to celebrate.

Getting to explore Newcastle was an added bonus to the trip. On my first morning I met up with a fellow travel blogger – Sam – who along with her husband Adam were great hosts and it was so nice to finally meet up.

Newcastle itself is a cracking city too. I quickly fell in love with it. It’s easy romanticising anywhere on such a short visit but it instantly felt like one of those “I could live here” kind of cities. It was 100% my kind of city and that was without even really enjoying the Newcastle nightlife that its renowned for. I highly recommend a visit and it’s somewhere I’m certain to return to.

Newcastle
Millennium bridge, Newcastle

Sheffield – July
As many of you will know, football happens to be one of my biggest passions and it just so happens that this summer England were hosting the women’s European Championship.

Women’s football is rapidly growing in England and as soon as tickets went on sale I applied, blindly, to go to a couple of the games. There were two considerations for any games I wanted to apply for. Either they had to be weekend fixtures or they had to be accessible midweek games (London).

I looked at the various weekend games being played throughout the course of the tournament and contemplated which location tickled my fancy most. In the end I decided I’d go and spend a weekend up in Sheffield, visit Bramall Lane for the first time and watch teams C1 & C2.

Bramall Lane

I’d blindly booked tickets without knowing which teams were competing at the time so it was pot luck. More than anything I was keen to support the tournament and visit a new stadium in the process. As it was the game ended up being the Netherlands vs Sweden so two of the better teams in the tournament and two of the most colourful fanbases too with their orange and yellow shirts on display across the stadium.

The weekend was pretty much all focused on football and friends. Two of my friends (Hayden and Jenny) moved up from Peterborough to Sheffield a while ago and it was the perfect excuse to meet up with them. Ironically Hayden was actually down in Peterborough for the weekend but Jenny was kind enough to give me the grand tour of Sheffield on my first morning in the city. It was nice catching up and seeing a little of Sheffield in the process.

Later in the day I met up with my friend Natalie who was pretty much touring the country throughout the tournament and pretty much attending all of the games, or as many as physically possible (there were some games played at the same time). We had a few drinks and had a good catch before heading off to the ground where I reunited with Sarah and her dad.

All in all it was a fun weekend seeing a mixture of friends and enjoying a few beers along the way.

Sheffield

The land of dinosaurs – July-September
Well, I don’t know that this really counts as part of a travel roundup but some of you will recall I had a busy summer volunteering over at Peterborough Cathedral.

Peterborough Cathedral were hosting a T-Rex exhibit featuring many life-sized dinosaurs in their beautiful cathedral. An unusual setting to say the least and certainly raised questions about the relationship between god and dinosaurs but it was a bloody cool experience to be a part of.

I didn’t even leave my home town but mentally I was transported to another world that resembled something out of Jurassic Park with roars echoing off the cathedral walls. So many visitors came and enjoyed the exhibit and it’s one of the best things I did this year so couldn’t forego mentioning it. I blogged about it a little halfway through the experience (link above) but I loved it and I believe they have something just as exciting lined up in 2023. Watch this space!

Funpark 1

De-Sa-lou? – October
Oh forgive the terrible pun WordPress but I could not help myself! For the most-part I’m pretty good at remembering where in the world I’ve visited but I’ve never been fully convinced on where in Spain we went to on a school trip back in 2002.

Don’t get me wrong, I remember enough about the trip that I’m 90% certain it was Salou. We visited the “famous” Portaventura theme park, we took a trip to Barcelona and saw the Camp Nou and La Sagrada Familia and a few other things. I remember wandering down to the beach from our accommodation and it being a quick and easy walk.

It was a fun week away in Spain but nevertheless I don’t exactly remember where we stayed and I’ve always been of the belief that it was Salou. All of the evidence stacks up that way anyway.

Fast forward twenty years and I was invited on a friend’s stag do away in Europe – a weekend in Salou! Instantly I had a feeling of de-ja-vu – I’ve been there before, right?

Anyway, as far as the plans were concerned.. the timing that they wanted to book the trip wasn’t the greatest – right before I was due to get married so I bowed out of a group booking and said I’d sort myself out later in the year. True to me word I did that and the result was I ended up going for a day longer than most of the group.

I’ll eventually do a trip about the post but I’m sure you have a general idea of how things went. Simplistically put it was a few days of sunshine and many beers.

Salou

I’m still none-the-wiser if Salou was where I went in 2002. I’m convinced that it was but it was unrecognisable on this trip so who knows?

Salou itself was nice. Very touristy and by touristy I mainly mean catered towards Brits who want a cheap and boozy weekend away in “Spain”. There are an endless number of English-speaking pubs and restaurants to take your pick from and I dare say we visited our fair share.

For a relaxing break / stag do it was perfect but if you’re wanting an authentic Spanish experience it’s perhaps not the top Spanish destination to visit.

Another wedding in Virginia – October
I know! A third international wedding! A third on US soil and another new state to visit! It’s a good job I love a wedding, eh?

My friend Shay invited me (and Haleigh) out to her wedding in Virginia and, again, as if I’d possibly refuse such an opportunity! I was 100% committed to going, the only uncertainty was whether we could find a way for Haleigh to join us.

Unfortunately we couldn’t make it work and Haleigh wasn’t able to attend so in the end I went anyway and rocked up solo for my third US wedding of the year!

This time the venue was a cosy house in Fincastle which coincidentally happened to be run by a fellow Brit! It was a lovely venue, wonderful to see Tony and Shay get married and also great to finally meet in person. Definitely another highlight of the year!

Kyle House

Roanoke – October
The wedding was in a tiny town called Fincastle. The nearest city was a place called Roanoke which I’ll admit I knew little about prior to meeting Shay. I wasn’t entirely sure where I wanted to base myself for the trip and pondered spending a bit more time in DC or elsewhere but in the end I committed to spending a few days in Roanoke and a couple of days in DC.

Roanoke was a pleasant surprise. It’s situated in a beautiful part of the state so I had mountain views from my lovely AirBnb downtown. The whole downtown area was entirely independent too. Independent shops, independent restaurants, coffee shops, bars, breweries..

No Starbucks, no McDonald’s, none of the big-name brands you know are situated anywhere within the downtown area. It was wonderful!

Again I had to work remotely a couple of days whilst I was in Roanoke which wasn’t ideal and meant that I didn’t do too much in the city but it was a great place to relax, check out a few breweries and just find joy in this adorable little city.

Roanoke

Washington DC – October
For this entire trip I weighed up where to base myself. I wasn’t sure if Roanoke would be interesting enough to spend my entire time, plus I couldn’t fly there directly anyway so I had to fly in to somewhere else.

DC was the city that seemed most obvious, however I’d been to DC before so had to consider whether visiting somewhere new might be more tempting. Alas DC was much cheaper to fly to and made a lot more sense logistically so I committed to a couple of nights in DC.

Fortunately I think DC is one of the most underrated cities in the US and I was keen to see a little more this time around. On my first trip I’d been sick through most of my stay and the warm weather meant I was quite keen to just do outdoorsy things on that occasion. I missed out the many museums that DC is famous for.

I already had a real fondness for DC and I think a return only really cemented those feelings further. It is a fantastic city, easily one of my favourites within the US. I visited some new neighbourhoods, ,visited some of those museums I’d missed first time around, checked out some new restaurants, met up with some friends on one of my evenings there and just loved my time in the city.

DC’s one of those places that I always thought that I probably would visit but never had any real desire to and I’m so pleased to say that I was 100% wrong to underestimate it. I fully recommend a trip and I’ve no doubt it’s somewhere I’ll go back to with Haleigh one day.

Washington DC

Another Thanksgiving, another Washington visit – November
and from one Washington (DC) to the other (Washington State), it was back to Washington again in November.

I love having an extra holiday to celebrate each year and escaping England in a cold, dark and dreary November is an added bonus. I don’t think I’d care for Thanksgiving so much if it was in I don’t know, let’s say July. Thanksgiving is a good mood-builder in the run up to Christmas and the festivities.

Due to visa issues, which are finally sorted!!, I hadn’t actually seen Haleigh since June. I was so short on annual leave that I couldn’t make a trip to Washington work and she wasn’t able to travel overseas due to the ongoing visa stuff so it had been a long time apart before reuniting for the holidays.

We didn’t do anything particularly special, Haleigh was sick for the first half of the week I was there and the second half of the week was occupied with family stuff for Thanksgiving but it was nice to spend some time together, eat food, catch up with family and just spend a little time in Washington.

Thanksgiving Food

Thanksgiving Pies

I even managed to meet up with a friend from nearby Union Gap which was long overdue. News of my visit even made it in to local news – I’m now a Yakima / Union Gap celebrity! Maybe..

Overall it was a lovely week away. My only real gripe about the trip was that Alaska Airlines have cut their route from two services a day to one which wreaked havoc with my plans.

Firstly, I couldn’t actually get to Walla Walla on the day I arrived in Seattle which meant flying to a different airport a little further away.

I had no such trouble going the other way but they scrapped the early morning flight from Walla Walla to Seattle. Ordinarily I get half a day’s exploration in Seattle, such as I’d done in June earlier in this year but on this occasion I only had a four hour layover which wasn’t worth leaving the airport for.

I think they do intend to bring the second service back but it was bitterly disappointing to miss out on any time in Seattle on this trip. It’s part of my “heading home” routine usually and I did feel a little glum that I’d missed out on this particular trip.

2023 plans?
I hate to end any blog post on a downer so lets look ahead at what I have planned for 2023.

Honestly, not much..

I’m flying out to Washington at the end of January, Haleigh will finally be moving to England so I’m flying over there to help her move some of her things over. No more long-distance – hurrah!

I think one of Haleigh’s cousins is getting married in the summer so we’ll likely make another trip back to Washington in the summer. I also think we’ll probably make a third trip later in the year around the holidays so Washington will again likely dominate the travel plans for a lot of the year.

However beyond Washington I would honestly just want to go somewhere that isn’t the USA at this point. I love the place but it has dominated my travel a bit too much in recent years. I stretched my luck a bit this year and somehow managed to pack in nearly 10 weeks in the USA from just six weeks of annual leave (am I a magician?) but it left little time to go anywhere else. I was pleased to at least visit three new states this year (Idaho, Utah & Virginia) but I’d really like to spend some time in other parts of the world.

I don’t know that it’ll happen this year but I’m also really keen to step foot on some new continents. Africa, Asia and South America are calling my name. I’ve seen a lot of the US, a lot of Europe but the other continents continue to allude me. I’m very, very tempted to book a short trip to Morocco this year.

MyHelsinki

My final hope is to get back to Finland. I need to look in to it a little more but I’m quite keen on the idea of going there for my birthday in August. I grew up living with a Finnish grandmother who I also shared a birthday with and so it’s a day that I’ll forever think of Finland – I think to be in Finland on that day would be special but that’s just an idea at this moment in time.

Anyway, thanks for indulging me and my ramblings WordPress! I’ll write about each of these trips in more detail at some point and hopefully I’ll be a little more active in 2023.

Happy New Year!

Jason